You gotta deepen your way of life, in where you choose to go and who you go out with. Think variety variety variety… and keep your heart and eyes available. That is what you will attract again and again if you’re negative about finding love. Point blank.
That which we gotta do, is end attention that is giving the dum-dums. You realize, the man-boys. Just how can it is done by us? Well, to startwe know in our gut when the guy we are seeing/talking to/dating isn’t going to love us the way we want and deserve to be loved… we*know. Or addressed. Right? Deeply down, it is known by us! But many times we’ll make an effort to convince ourselves otherwise… simply hoping we have been wrong. When actually, we have to trust that instinct and trust it immediately. Think it ever been wrong in the past about it… has? How frequently would you want you might have paid attention to that gut feeling?
But fine. The good guys out here in SF. A good amount of them! They are guys who can provide a lot more than one thing trivial. Guys that are more in tune and wish to treat females appropriate. Their priorities are right. Plus it’s clear through the get-go. No act. No ridiculous games. In addition they continue. It may have took them awhile to make it (or maybe they’ve always been because of this) but day that is present are GOOD guys. (more…)