Dear Ms. Vicki,
I am 22 years old, and also this is my time that is first being a relationship with a guy when you look at the armed forces. He simply got in from Afghanistan and decided which he desires to be hitched next 2 yrs.
I have heard numerous tales of soldiers disloyal, and I also had been wondering with him being only 21 whether I should be concerned?
We have been currently nine hours aside, and I also intend on going my son and me nearer to him. Will which help at all?
— New Union
Dear Brand Brand Brand New,
We promised myself to begin being more honest and open with every person whom writes if you ask me. I am perhaps not saying i am going to be mean or surly; I simply plan to become more candid about the specific situation.
You stated it’s your very first time with a army man. I am hoping he could be a beneficial man, not merely as you deserve a great guy, but since you have son you might be bringing in to the relationship.
I have got four “don’ts” you’ll want to bear in mind as you move ahead.
1. Do not forget the man within the uniform.
I have discovered on the years that some individuals get crazy over a guy in uniform. It represents prestige and power for all.
They forget the man within the uniform. They think the uniform and rank character that is equal nonetheless they never. This is why, ladies can quickly leap too in to the relationship. (more…)